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Desire For Admiration

No no I don't want anyone to admire me. I do what I want. This my life , here id my rules my dreams my goals. Ohh really?  Really not. No need to lie to myself. Why am I covering up my insecurities behind my hard and harsh behaviour. 
Yes this is true that one should not care about others opinion but one thing is certain that mostly admiration from people comes when we work according to the needs of society. May be sometimes we feel ignored but that's not always bad for us because doing something which is beneficial to us as well as to society,it takes a lot of time and hard work. And here is a point to note that when we start doing or creating something really useful, we don't do it for admiration.We want remarks from those whom we trust just for improvement and guidance to do better. So priority should be what can I do in which I can give my best. And when I start giving my best, self appreciation comes from inside which is our most powerful inspiration to go ahead on the path of righteousness. 

नहीं, मैं नहीं चाहता कि कोई मेरी प्रशंसा करे। मैं वही करता हूं जो मैं चाहता हूं। यह मेरा जीवन है, यहां मेरे नियम हैं मेरे सपने मेरे लक्ष्य हैं। सच में? सच में नहीं। खुद से झूठ बोलने की जरूरत नहीं है। मैं अपने कठिन और कठोर व्यवहार के पीछे अपनी असुरक्षाओं को क्यों ढंक रहा हूं।
हाँ यह सच है कि किसी को दूसरों की राय की परवाह नहीं करनी चाहिए लेकिन एक बात निश्चित है कि लोगों की प्रशंसा तब होती है जब हम समाज की जरूरतों के अनुसार काम करते हैं। हो सकता है कि हम कभी-कभी अनदेखा महसूस करें लेकिन यह हमेशा हमारे लिए बुरा नहीं होता क्योंकि ऐसा कुछ करना जो हमारे साथ-साथ समाज के लिए भी फायदेमंद हो, इसमें बहुत समय और मेहनत लगती है। और यहां ध्यान देने वाली बात यह है कि जब हम कुछ करना या वास्तव में उपयोगी बनाना शुरू करते हैं, तो हम इसे प्रशंसा के लिए नहीं करते हैं। हम उन लोगों से टिप्पणी चाहते हैं, जिन पर हम सिर्फ बेहतर करने के लिए सुधार और मार्गदर्शन के लिए भरोसा करते हैं। इसलिए प्राथमिकता यह होनी चाहिए कि मैं क्या करूं जिसमें मैं अपना सर्वश्रेष्ठ दे सकूं। और जब मैं अपना सर्वश्रेष्ठ देना शुरू करता हूं, तो आत्म-प्रशंसा अंदर से आती है जो धार्मिकता के मार्ग पर आगे बढ़ने की हमारी सबसे शक्तिशाली प्रेरणा है।

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